The screen’s blue light hummed, casting a pallor over my face as my fingers hovered, aching slightly from the wrestling match I’d just had with a stubborn pickle jar. It felt like a metaphor for the task at hand: trying to pry open the recent conversation I’d had, distill its essence, and neatly package it into an email that probably wouldn’t be fully read. Another discovery call, another ninety minutes of deep engagement, of active listening, of uncovering needs and sketching solutions, now reduced to this. This forced, repetitive act of writing a summary of what we just *said*.
There’s a specific kind of dread that settles in the gut after an exceptionally good call. Not the bad kind, but the one born from knowing the next 49 minutes, maybe even an hour, will be spent painstakingly trying to recapture that energy, that flow, that mutual understanding, in a long, boring email. The cursor blinks, a relentless, tiny judgment, demanding perfection, demanding that I don’t just *explain* but *re-explain* everything that just transpired. It’s like being asked to write a detailed summary of a book you just finished reading aloud to someone. The original performance *was* the thing. The summary feels… superfluous.
The Trust Deficit
We tell ourselves it’s about clarity, about setting expectations, about having a paper trail. But isn’t it also, fundamentally, about a lack of trust? A low-trust environment often necessitates these defensive, CYA emails because we can’t reliably assume a shared understanding of what was actually said, what was truly agreed upon. We write them not to illuminate, but to insulate, to protect against future ‘he said, she said’ skirmishes. And in that process, we introduce errors, misinterpretations, and a whole lot of wasted time. I recall one instance where I dutifully summarized a complex technical discussion, only to later realize I’d conflated two separate requirements. The client, relying on my written interpretation rather than their memory of the live conversation, went down a completely wrong path for nearly a week. It was a costly 9-day delay, all because my effort to ‘clarify’ actually obfuscated.
The Habit of Redundancy
Why do we cling to this ritual? Perhaps it’s habit, an inertia as strong as my failure to open that pickle jar earlier. We’ve always done it this way. But the world moves faster now. The pace of information exchange is dizzying, and every moment spent on redundant tasks is a moment not spent on innovation, on deeper connection, on actual value creation. The very act of re-articulating a conversation forces a filter, an interpretation, sometimes a re-framing that wasn’t present in the original, organic exchange. It’s not just redundant; it’s often a distortion.
Blake N.S.: High Stakes, High Fidelity
Consider Blake N.S., a prison education coordinator. His world is one of high stakes, where miscommunication isn’t just inefficient; it can have profound, life-altering consequences. Blake regularly liaises with wardens, correctional officers, external educational providers, and even family members regarding inmate progress, program availability, and disciplinary actions. A single missed detail in an email about a new vocational training program could mean the difference between an inmate gaining a vital skill or being overlooked for another 9 months, extending their struggle to reintegrate into society. The sheer volume of information, the critical importance of accuracy, and the diverse literacy levels of his stakeholders make the traditional follow-up email a minefield.
Blake once told me about a new initiative, a digital literacy program, that he championed. He had a 39-minute call with a potential partner organization, outlining the curriculum, the expected outcomes, and the logistical challenges. He then spent the better part of two hours crafting a follow-up email, trying to meticulously document every point. Despite his best efforts, a key nuance about the required technical infrastructure was lost in translation. The partner, relying on the email, prepared their end based on a misinterpretation, leading to a scramble on the day of implementation and nearly costing them the entire pilot project. For someone like Blake, clarity isn’t a luxury; it’s operational integrity. He needs an unimpeachable record, a source of truth that removes any doubt or potential for defensive reinterpretation.
Technical Infrastructure
Direct Conversation Capture
The Unvarnished Truth: Conversation as Source of Record
Imagine if, instead of the laborious, error-prone recreation, Blake could simply share an unvarnished, accurate record of the conversation itself. The very words exchanged, timestamped, speaker-identified.
The technology exists to capture these conversations with remarkable precision. I’m talking about tools that can convert audio to text in real-time or post-call, producing a transcript that serves as the ultimate source of truth. This isn’t some futuristic dream; it’s happening right now, offering a direct, unbiased account of what was said. For organizations dealing with sensitive information, or for sales professionals managing complex deals, this is game-changing. It reduces the opportunity for ‘memory gaps’ or deliberate misinterpretations.
Shifting the Burden, Not Eliminating the Record
Now, I acknowledge this isn’t a silver bullet. Some level of synthesis, of highlighting key actions or decisions, will always be valuable. We’re not abandoning the need for *any* written record. The point is to shift the burden. Instead of summarizing, interpreting, and potentially introducing errors, the email becomes a concise wrapper around the irrefutable truth of the transcript. “Here’s what we discussed, see full context if needed. Key actions for you: A, B, C. Key actions for us: X, Y, Z.” It’s a subtle but profound change in emphasis, from creating a new version of reality to curating the existing one.
This isn’t about being revolutionary for the sake of it. It’s about finding genuine value in streamlining processes that have become unnecessarily complex. The real problem isn’t that we need to communicate after a call; it’s that we’ve made that communication an exercise in arduous duplication. The specificity of a transcript, compared to a subjective summary, provides an unparalleled level of clarity. It elevates the conversation itself to a primary document, rather than an ephemeral event that must be laboriously reconstructed. We’re moving from ‘remember what we *thought* we said’ to ‘here’s what we *actually* said.’
Shedding Old Habits
My own experience, having meticulously crafted countless follow-up emails, often with a nagging feeling of inadequacy, tells me this shift is not just welcome but necessary. I’ve been on both ends: the sender desperately trying to capture every nuance, and the receiver skimming, making assumptions. My expertise in streamlining communication isn’t about grand theories, but about acknowledging the small, pervasive frictions that compound into major inefficiencies. I’m honest enough to admit that while the tech is here, the human adoption of it – the shedding of old habits like that stuck pickle jar lid – might be the hardest part. My vulnerability, sharing my own mistakes in sending ambiguous follow-ups, is an attempt to build trust, to say, ‘I’ve been there, and there’s a better way.’
Shared Vulnerability
Building Trust
The True Cost of Redundancy
This redundancy, this ritual of re-documentation, isn’t just inefficient; it’s disrespectful of everyone’s time. We spend approximately 29% of our workweek on email, and a significant portion of that is likely dedicated to the follow-up dance. The collective energy, the 19 billion dollars, perhaps, lost annually to this one repetitive task. The real value is in liberating that energy, allowing teams to focus on strategy, on creativity, on the next big idea, rather than endlessly paraphrasing past conversations.
A New Measure of Success
What if the truest measure of a good conversation wasn’t how perfectly it could be summarized, but how confidently it could simply be shared?
 
							 
							